
The Eastbridge School's Parents' Teachers' Fellowship (PTF) held it\s election of officers for the school year 2010-2011 at the Max's Restaurant, San Mateo today, July 24. Taking advantage of the occasion, the organizers, also included a Parenting Seminar on the subject of Biblical Parenting for the benefit of the attendees. There were more than a hundred parent participants in the event, highlighted by the report of the past PTF's accomplishment and financial report. The new set of officers included Mrs. Valerie Marasigan as President and Joy Gonzales as Vice President. We wish them well on their way to a fruitful year of service.
Among other things, the past year's PTF was able to do relief operations for parents as well as non-parents victims of the Ondoy calamity last year. Two outreach programs were also conducted with Vine's Foundation and Wawa Elementary School. as beneficiaries Fund raising campaigns were conducted to finance the said activities. The campaigns included book and food sale during major school programs and a raffle. The school also benefited greatly from the fund raising as free books were given to academic topnotcher students. School facilities improvement from the PTF projects include the installation of heat insulation for the canteen area and the Parent's Lounge, ramps to ease student movement into elevated rooms and walkways, Parent Lounge improvement, etc.
To share knowledge on the very important issue of parenting/discipline, the PTF invited Pastor Rene Maramara to conduct the seminar on the subject. A parent of four children himself who home-schooled all of them with his wife, Pastor Rene used his rich experience as a father, counselor and pastor to tackle the issues. The one hour talk centered on several key points:
- the biblical definition of discipline
- the need for discipline
- the methods of biblical discipline
Aware of the way people misunderstand the term "discipline", Pastor Rene illuminated on the real meaning of the word, especially in the light of the biblical data. This he claimed gave more authority to what he said as it is not his own definition, nor anybody else's that matters especially on a subject as critically important as this. He went on to show why there is a need for discipline, enumerating them thus:
- it is commanded by God
- because of the nature of the child
- because of the worsening worldly influence
In the end, Pastor Rene was able to point out that "Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child..." (Prov 22:15) and that it should be dealt with directly and promptly for the discipline to succeed to any degree. While it required no effort on the part of the parents to turn their child into a source of shame for them, it takes a lot of resolve to practice biblical discipline. Ultimately, he said that real parental love should manifest in this. Eventually, the biblical method of discipline touched on the principle stated in Prov 13:24: "Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him. "
With the limited time given for the talk, it was not possible to go into more details on the methodology. But it is hoped that the principles learned by the parents in the message will prompt them to seriously consider and rethink many of the fallacies and ineffectivity of the modern trends in discipline as widely practiced today.